We got the invitation to the crack whore's (translation: cousin's girlfriend's) baby girl shower today.
I wish I could get angry if it weren't so darn sad and depressing.
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- I'm here because it seems to be helping. I am mother to a toddler and we lost our beautiful daughter on Mother's Day 2007 because of cord compression . Ironically, the day she died in the womb, May 12, was her "exact" due date(40 weeks). So many things like this I cannot explain. We welcomed our 'rainbow baby' Jan 2010! Email me: amendingheart at gmail dot com
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Please tell me you are not going. Wait, let me rephrase. Do what is right for you. I, however, could not go, even now, much less 2 months after M died.
That's got to suck. Sorry.
The tricky part is that it's family.
I don't know what I'm going to do..I have a couple of weeks to think about it. I have the urge to buy them loads of diaper and good healthy baby food...it really is a sad situation. My heart is so heavy for this child.
I'm with Ms. G on this one. You don't have to go. If they don't get it, then screw them. I still haven't been to a baby shower and it has been 11.5 mos. In fact, I don't even want one for this baby because I know it will be too hard to deal with. I'm so sorry.
It does sound depressing. In so many different ways.
You can still send the diapers and baby food without going. No way do you need to go. I wouldn't.
people will understand if you don't go. if they don't understand, screw them. they haven't lost a child and will never know the immense, intense, overwhelming grief. we have managed to alienate friends, and sadly, my best friend who is having a girl due the same month our girls died. but we just can't do it.
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