I just wanted to tell you that I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know what a dark time this is... it will be for awhile... but not forever.
Our twin son and daughter were born prematurely 3 1/2 years ago, and both died within an hour after birth. Healing comes slowly. Life is never the same, but it does come back.
The hard thing with 'being amongst the living' is that after a few weeks they move on. Sure they are sad for you when they think about you, but they don't 'get it'. They just think about the situation sometimes, you have to live it.
So when you feel like everyone has forgotten and no one knows how your really feeling, remember we are all here and live it each day with you.
I'm here because it seems to be helping. I am mother to a toddler and we lost our beautiful daughter on Mother's Day 2007 because of cord compression . Ironically, the day she died in the womb, May 12, was her "exact" due date(40 weeks). So many things like this I cannot explain. We welcomed our 'rainbow baby' Jan 2010!
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I just wanted to tell you that I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know what a dark time this is... it will be for awhile... but not forever.
Our twin son and daughter were born prematurely 3 1/2 years ago, and both died within an hour after birth. Healing comes slowly. Life is never the same, but it does come back.
I'm so sorry.
The hard thing with 'being amongst the living' is that after a few weeks they move on. Sure they are sad for you when they think about you, but they don't 'get it'.
They just think about the situation sometimes, you have to live it.
So when you feel like everyone has forgotten and no one knows how your really feeling, remember we are all here and live it each day with you.
Hugs
xxx
The land of the living can be, as brenda says, a very lonely place. And it can seem as if there's nothing to do with time except to waste it.
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